Hi Jackie,
There are several courses run in most states depending on where you live. What you are looking for is a basic pelvic floor course. Most capital cities run them often under the auspices of the APA continence and women's health SIG. Some are privately run such as ones at Royal Hosp for women in Sydney, Pauline Chiarelli in Newcastle.
If you are really keen Melbourne Uni offers a post Grad Cert. in Continence.
If you have a gynea that you know and who is willing to work with you ask him/her to show you how they assess the pelvic floor (they do it differenly but it's better than nothing) and ask how well she is moving it.
how far are you from a major centre? could/would she be willing to travel to a continence physio (and you with her) for an one off consultation. I know I occasionally get physios visiting here.
Irma