Based on what you have noted, I think my treatment would be similar (except for maybe cross-frictions...not because it's not an accepted and common treatment; just because it doesn't make sense in my "little brain").
Re. exercise: really look at where her weakness is; how she functionally moves throughout her shoulder girdle to decide what exercises to use
Considering the finding of calcification...
There has been some decent research in the past supporting the use of low intensity, pulsed ultrasound (which is nice considering there is not much other support for the modality).
If the area of calcification is palpable, it may be a good reason to discontinue cross-frictioning as I would think that would just irritate her symptoms.
Even if you addressed her biomechanics with exercise to minimize secondary impingement, some impingement may be difficult to avoid with the presense of some calcification. Have her be aware her ADLs (i.e. limit over-shoulder height lifting or activity) to limit repeated impingement.
I have used eccentric exercise for tendinopathies in the area however I don't know if the exercise directed specifically at the affected tendons would be of benefit when there is calcification.....maybe someone else can address that ????