Thank-you, the websites are really great and I am learning daily and it is helping.

A problem that we have at the moment is very stiff muscles. I know there is a terminology for it but forget it now. So, how do I approach this? Massage? Certain Movements? Different Positioning? I would much appreciate a few pointers here.

The very good news in our world is that I have found a good and competent and kind and experienced neuro physio that is willing to work with us. She is in another town but I will rent a temp house there and we will move to get experienced and competent guidance and help. But for a few weeks yet I am on my own.