hi there sorry to hear wut ur going thru...
anyway lately we've seen alot of success stories of repetitve passive movement in other words simply try to hang her by use of a special carrier on a treadmill and passively move her legs immitating the action of walking .. this may take months and needs alot of patience..
for provoking swalowing muscles simply apply some ice on the throat area in fast unrythmic manner for 3 minutes 3-5 times daily...
for her feeding use Pediasure from Abbott it will give her complete diet in a cup it also contains some essential fatty acids that are proven to get a lot of progress in such neurologic cases....
best of luck dear