Hi Sadiepup
Sorry to hear your mum has had such a bad run medically. It is devastating enough to have a haemorrhage but then get an infection on top of this...
As a neuro physio I would not want to give you an exercise programme over the internet without having assessed your mother. The physio giving the exercise needs to know your mothers status and current abilities. I think you need to seek help from the NHS to help you with this. It is a perfectly reasonable request - you are really just asking for things you and your mother can do to help her as much as you can.She had about 6-8 weeks of physiotherapy at home but they have now discharged her saying that they cannot do anymore for her. They said due to her short term memory loss and low concentration levels this is how she will be for the rest of her life.
She cannot sit up, is bed bound and has to be hoisted into her wheelchai
Here are some general things to think about before seeking further help:
- what about muscle contracture? has she been given exs to and positioning to try to prevent further contracture? Even if she doesn't get any better contractures can get worse over time and result in increasing disablement and ill health. So doing things to prevent cotractures is a good idea.
- Did they try a tilt table standing frame? - even if your mum doesn't have the motor ability to stand up or to maintain standing udner her own steam a standing frame provides a way of maintaining standing and may help in preventing further contracture to the leg muscles, and may help with bladder and bone health. They can also help with morale - providing the process is relatively comfortable. In order to use a standing frame you have to have enough range of movement at the knee and hips to get them relatively straight. If she is able to benefit from one you could look into getting one. I am not sure what is involved in your country. And you would need considerable help from a physio with the first few uses of it. However if your mother would benefit from it you can soon learn how to set your mother up in it and it couled be part of her daily routine.
Are standing frames effective? - there is not much evidence that they do work but this may be more due to an absence of evidence rather than evidence of absence. There aren't many trials that looked at the use of tilt tables or standing frames- Not spending too much time lying in bed . You have to be careful with developing pressure areas if you spend too much time in the chair and if your mother has big fatigue problems you have to work within what is possible. However the less waking time spent in bed the better. Being upright promotes better attention and consciousness.