ok thanks fo your advice, i see that there really is no definate answer, i will just have to ride it out and see how it goes.
i'm 27 and have dislocated the other knee as well, my sister has problems with both knees too, and has had operations on both, and my dad has problems with his knees and also had operations in the past, i do get pain everyday, and have the giving way where i can feel the kneecap slip a little bit and then lock back in,although this doesn't happen everyday, i've been doing lots of different exercises to correct posture and improve my balance, stretch my hamstrings build up my quad area, i was told that for it to dislocate so easy must have been the weakness in my surrounding muscles, and not so much the abnormality in my knee.
would the fact that i cannot get my leg to starighten up comfortably, and push the knee back be due to the fact that my hamstrings are tight? even though i do hamstring stretches everyday?
my physio seems to be reluctant in getting a second opinion, even though he says i may need one pretty much everytime i see him, i dunno if this is just an nhs thing because of resources and waiting times.
anyway thanks for your help.