Thanks... this is exactly what I was looking for. Very few sites online that mention the steps taken for recovery at this stage.
To answer your question, the pain in my calf was on my inner left leg/rear from where the bottom of the calf muscle just bulges out to the center. Both I and the doctor could feel the tear, a sideways "T" shape running longer on the vertical.
I have gently tried the first three of the exercises/stretches you list and already if feels less tight than before. It was slightly painful, but I was careful not to overdo it. I'm also going to try some light massage of the area.
I'll continue with these steps you suggest. Again, I'd rather have this healed right the first time then risk a repeat injury and even longer recovery.
Another question: I've been doing an exercise bike with no ill-effect on the calf. I have a rowing machine avail. but worry that would be too much stress. Someone has also suggested using an elliptical machine as another possible alternative.
A good idea or no? This, with the understanding that anything that causes sudden or major discomfort in the recovering muscle, I'll avoid.