Hi Justin.
Thanks for responding. Believe me, if you want help, then your history can never be too long on a site - we can always ignore what is not required!
OK, firstly, I don't think you back problem is a simplistic one. The area you indicate seems to be over some ribs. Has anyone ever examined your thoracic spine properly? You might do well to contact LJ Lee in Canada to see if there is anyone she knows in the UK near where you live. She is an awesome physio who is doing research into the kind of pain you have.
Next, Becuase it doesn't seem that anyone has really dealt with what is probably an unstable rib injury, you aren't progressing. This can have implications for your low back and pelvis and then onto your hip and hamstrings.
I don't think your solution will lie in simply doing strengthening exercises. You need to sort out the reason why these things are happening and i don't think you are simply "weak". It has to do with how well your joints are working, your muscle strength and how the whole system coordinates.
To be honest, I am Australian so I don't understand how the NHS system works but it sounds like you are on some waiting list to see someone you don't have to pay for and you get to see them for a limited amount of time. Is that right?
Now, again i speak out of ignorance, but the type of physio you need would probably not work in the NHS system. It requires a higher level of knowledge, understanding and skill, so much so that they probably own their own businesses or get highly paid for the knowledge they have. I can tell you that in Sydney alone, there would not be many physios at all who can competently deal with the ribs in a specific way - maybe less than 10-20 practices in a city of 4 million people and loads of physios. And that is probably being nice!
LJ Lee's website is www.ljptconsulting.ca - email her and ask who you can see for treatment and a programme. Honestly, it would be worth the money if you got onto the right person. Perhaps physiobase would know someone - you can also PM him!
Let us know how you are going. There are more things we can do to help but i would need to be able to put my hands on you to help...