Thanks to both of you for your replies.

Just to be clear, I did go in to the treatment room with her on the first visit, but after that am not encouraged to do so. I can understand to some extent as it is a large room, with around ten or twelve patients, five pts, and loads of equipment. There's not really much room for visitors. I think that the deal is the Physician in charge of the clinic liaises with the patient/parent and the pt. I assure you I am not shy, and if I need to see my dd in there, or talk to the pt I will.....but I am allowing the pt to do his job for the moment.

Thanks Esther for the link - it looks interesting.